Thursday, 23 June 2011

Nothing less

"The One" a concept that has been drilled into our head by media. Is there such thing as the one? That person you are thinking off right now. YES! that person. You may think that they are “the one” but would it be unfair if we were only meant to fall in love with person for the rest of our lives. What happens when they die? It will at some point, either you die or they do. Should you then be miserable for the rest of your life? Ok, something less dramatic, what if you think, they are “the one” but you are not theirs, then what? It is entirely possible. No one really knows what it feels like, being in love with “the one”. It could have come and gone and you could be settling right now. It could be in your future but you settled too early. So fuck "the one", love with all your heart and if it is not working leave and do not live your life thinking "What if?” Be happy, because if you cannot be happy with who you are with you are definitely settling... no doubt about that.
So say, Not Tonite, say it to yourself, you are not settling tonite.

Wednesday, 22 June 2011

At first sight...

So you know the scene in the movie when two people lock eyes and realise that they are madly in love. What a load of bull shit!!! It never happen, you have to be some kind of desperate to believe in that. There is physical attraction, which is the main driver for who you end up with and then the small things that you learn as time passes. Nevertheless, whether you agree with me or not, really think about why you ended up with the person you did and deep down are you truly happy with your decisions....